It is widely accepted that the best way to ensure that you actually do the things that you might not otherwise find the courage to do is to tell people that you intend to do them. Announce it to the world. Shout it from the rooftops!
Because saying it out loud makes it real. And because people are, by nature, curious. And encouraging. And disbelieving. The words of encouragement boost our confidence and the prospect of inquiry makes us more likely to deliver. I mean, imagine the excruciating loss of face if, heaven forbid, when they ask, we haven’t actually done it.
I’ve often wondered why it is that we can’t simply do these things for ourselves. Why not being brave enough and letting ourselves down is less of a motivation than letting down others. Why are we our own worst enemy? Our own harshest critic? Why do we talk ourselves out of doing things that our friends would encourage us to do?
So I’m going to share with you my little list. I can’t wait to do ALL of the things on this list. Some are scary. And some are difficult, be it physically, mentally or emotionally. Some will take rather a lot of continuous effort. Others will be short and sweet. And a couple are currently completely impractical. But that doesn’t prevent me from wanting to do those things. One day.
So here it is, in no particular order:
1) Go trekking in Nepal [specifically Anapurna and Everest Base Camp]
2) Hike the GR 20
3) Go hiking in Palestine
4) Take a silversmithing/jewellery-making course in India
5) Run a marathon
6) Take a photography course
7) Learn Danish
8) Own a dog
9) Start a blog
10) Start a jewellery business
11) Read the Bible
12) Read the Qu’ran
13) Read the major works of Hinduism
14) Learn to meditate
15) Go to Mali
16) Swim in the Indian ocean
17) Watch an opera at the Met
18) Learn to play the ‘cello
19) Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro
20) Have a vegetable garden
21) Take a patisserie course
22) Learn to sew/ dressmaking
23) Own a horse
24) Go dog-sledding inside the Arctic circle
25) Sleep in a bedouin tent
26) Walk the Camino de Santiago
27) Learn to kayak
28) Join a running club
29) Eat sushi in Tokyo
30) Visit Venice
31) Visit Laos
32) Visit Tibet
33) Learn to swim front crawl
34) Ride a camel in the Sahara
35) Shop in the soukhs of Marrakesh
36) Learn to crochet
37) Read something by each Nobel literature prize winner
38) Take the Eldhestar Icelandic horse photography course
39) Have a speaking role in a play
40) Take a creative writing course
41) Watch a performance of a Shakespeare play at Hamlet’s castle in Helsingør
42) See the northern lights
43) Spend Christmas in Bethlehem
44) Cuddle a Koala
45) Hike the Tour de Mont Blanc
46) Go trekking in the Drakensberg Mountains
47) Learn modern Greek
48) See wild polar bears in their natural habitat
49) Visit the Galapagos Islands
50) Sleep in an igloo.
My goodness, you are ambitious! I got tired just by reading your list …. ;o)
Your trick would not work for me, as I would have no shame and admit that I was too lazy/chickened out. ;o)
I have to really, really, extremely want something badly. Then I will do it. Being also a person with many plans, I can accept that not all plans will become reality.
Good that we are all different, it makes it all so interesting! Cheers, smiley and heart
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Nice list! I like what you said about people encouraging you when you make your goals known. Just be careful to not get discouraged if people question why you want to do some things on your list (or why you don’t want to do others), because that happens sometimes too. It’s your list, and I think it’s great that you pick things that challenge you. Keep it up! 🙂
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Hi Shelly, thank you for your kind words. You’re right – I’m sure plenty of people won’t quite understand my choice of goals, but hey – the world would be a boring place if we all wanted the same things in life, wouldn’t it?!I’m really looking forward to getting started on some of my tasks – all of which I hope will help me to grow as a person – and maybe blogging a little bit here and there about my attempts to do some of these things 🙂 Thanks for reading, and for your words of encouragement 🙂 xx
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I must admit that I’m more like Birgit – I’m all too ready to “defend” my (perceived?) limits when encouraged to do things I find are beyond me … like learning to ski, singing in public. And yet I would encourage anyone else to go ahead and do exactly what they wanted and damn the torpedos. Funny how our minds work ….
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Hi, Susan, I don’t see it as “defending” my limits. More like admitting to my limits. I always have a lot of plans, so there will always be some that won’t be followed through. That’s o.k. too.
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